Thursday, 16 October 2008
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Images From The Pain Of Breaking Up
The pain of breaking up is hard to describe unless you have been through the experience. No, we're not talking about a mutual split although it is still an unpleasant experience. We're talking about those on the receiving end of a dumping.
If you have been spurned then we feel your pain. It's a time when strong emotions such as panic and desperation come into play. How you react will determine whether there is any chance of salvaging your relationship. In The Magic Of Making Up, T W Jackson says during the initial stages of being spurned these emotions must be kept under control.
Now that is an easy thing to say and in most cases, people react one way or the other. The most common reaction is in an aggressive manner and we are talking verbally. Things are said during this time which are very hurtful mostly regretted. Things are dredged up which do neither party any good and just cause more and more resentment.
Walking away and having time to temper emotions is the best course of action. Jackson says it gives someone time to let the anger, panic and desperation subside enough so they can assess the relationship. And an assessment needs to be made. Things like do you want them back or are they worth getting back or is it just best for every one involved that the relationship ends there and then.
The Magic Of Making Up has helped more than 7000 people worldwide getting back with their ex and if that's the course you want to take, then the blue print laid out by Jackson covers every aspect of the process. And yes, it is a process but a worthwhile one which will help you avoid making crucial and relationship ending mistakes.
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